In a groundbreaking move an Indian mother places matrimonial advertisement for her gay son, which met with an outpouring of support on social media, with many calling the ad the first of its kind in the country.
The advertisement created a lot of buzz on social media and Harrish received a couple of responses within the day
Harrish Iyer, 36 is a well-known name in Mumbai’s LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) community, with a flamboyance that often puts him in the spotlight, whether it is as an LGBT activist or as a director at the NGO, United Way of Mumbai.
“But this very flamboyance often intimidates other men, making it harder for Harrish to find a partner,” said one of his friends, on the condition of anonymity.
“I am getting old. I want my son to find a male companion before I kick the bucket. Padma had expressed a desire to start a matrimonial forum for gay men along with some like-minded people, but that plan never took off.
However, with her own son’s happiness in mind, Padma has taken it upon herself to find a suitable match for Harrish. On Tuesday, the gay matrimonial advert for Harrish was published, reading as follows: ‘Seeking, 25-40, well-placed, animal-loving, vegetarian groom for my son (36, 5’11), who works with an NGO, Caste no bar.
The mother-son duo hopes to complete their search soon. If a suitable match is found, Harrish intends to wed his partner as per rituals.
“I guess my wedding will be a vegan ceremony, and will have a mix of the best customs of all religions and castes,” said Harrish, adding that a lot would depend on the groom and his preferences as well.