Prophet (PBUH) directed men and women not to create intimacy with not only na-mahrams but also with such women of Jews and Christians who indulge in vulgar and indecent talks. Today boys and girls who study in colleges mingle freely.
The environment has become so corrupt that a girl who doesn’t keep a boy friend is considered pathetic. College girls discuss in the free hours such subjects on which modest married couple feel shy to talk about.
Christian missionary colleges arrange lectures on women’s liberation on regular intervals in which speakers present the point of view that woman is not a commodity that she is bought and sold.
She too has wishes of her own and she has full right to decide about the most important decision of her life. This is the reason that most of the Muslim girls reject the alliance settled by their parent.
Teachers try to popularize nude dresses. And today most of the girls like to wear sleeveless shirts and jeans pant. Their dresses are so transparent and tight that the body shapes and contours are revealed through them, whereas this kind of dress is not permitted even for men. Most of the college going Muslim girls wear jeans pant and T shirt.
It is not that their parents don’t know about it but they have given the freedom, despite that Islam has prohibited a woman to wear men’s clothing and a man to wear a woman’s dress. When you give your daughters such kind of liberties they will rush for more liberties then it will be difficult to control them.
One more curse has afflicted upon us that we began celebrating Valentine’s Day and friendship day and when the girls talk about these stupid celebrations no one objects to it.
Besides these two occasions a girl is heaped with gifts on her birthdays by her well wishers but the elders of the house don’t even call an explanation to that as to who gives her the gifts and why? Parents should check their children’s bags and purses and keep eye on the inbox and call history of their cell phones.
By: Ather Moin / Email Id: athermoin1@gmail.com
——–Siasat News